Failure. What is failure? Is failure something that can be learned from or is failure something that defines who we are and what we do. In Carol S. Dweck’s book Mindset, the author evinces that the answer to this question truly lies within ourselves and what we think, i.e. our mindset. Dweck, unlike Malcolm Gladwell (author of Outliers), believes that people themselves are in complete control of what they think and how they succeed or do not succeed. According to Dweck, we are all born with a certain amount of talent or a set of skills and what we do throughout our lives can drastically impact what we become: for better or worse.
There are two mindsets which a person can have: a fixed mindset or a growth mindset. A person with a fixed mindset tends to take their failures and lets them define them and really bring them down on an emotional level. However a person with a growth mindset utilizes their failures to better themselves in future endeavors. In her book, Dweck mentions college students with a fixed mindset who refuse to look at the test scores of those who performed better on a given exam. Instead they choose to look at the test scores of those who don’t perform as well. However, college students with the growth mindsets were more concerned with those people who performed extraordinarily on the exam so that they could learn from their failures. The students with fixed mindsets chose to look at test scores of those who didn’t perform as well because they needed to do what people with fixed mindets tend to do: “repair their self-esteem” (Dweck 36), rather than their failures.
I do not want to think of myself as a college student with a fixed mindset, but the parallels that I was able to draw between myself and those Dweck mentions with fixed mindsets is astonishing. I know that I would never want to see another student’s papers on something I performed poorly on. It just makes me feel like more of a failure. It leaves me thinking: “If he/she could have done so well, why couldn’t I”. But perhaps this is something that I can work on. Maybe I can stop being a college student who always needs self-assurance and become one who learns from failure.
Dweck, Carol S. Mindset. New York, New York: Ballantine Books, 2006.